I am a 31-year-old Asian female who is still free and single. Say what? How can I be 31 years old and still be single? Well, the first thing is that I chose to be single; being single means I can be free. Free of the hassles of dating and planning things around a partner. I just want to be free and single and just want to live my life and not for others because honestly, once you have children, you would have to sacrifice a lot of time and effort to raise the kid and not to mention that one has to be economically stable to raise a kid cause raising kids is way too damn expensive. Kids are cute, but they are like little vacuums just sucking the time, money, and energy out of you. I am just saying that I can't picture my life with children, but other people can have kids to maintain the population.I am a 31-year-old Asian female who is still unmarried. Some people might find it surprising that I'm 31 and single, but it's a choice I've made. Being single allows me to have freedom and independence. I don't have to worry about the challenges of dating or making compromises for a partner. I want to live my life on my own terms without having to consider anyone else. Once you have children, it requires a significant amount of time, effort, and financial stability to raise them. While children are adorable, they can be quite expensive and demanding. Personally, I can't envision my life with children, but I believe others can have kids to contribute to the population.